As a cat owner (or more aptly, one who’s owned by a cat), you know that cats are aloof and tend to do as they please.  So, if you have had a cat as a pet and suddenly are introducing a baby to ktty, this probably wasn’t in her plans.  In order to create a harmonious home, there are a few things you can do.

1. Let your cat sniff your baby’s belongings.  Cats are curious by nature.  If you don’t allow your cat to check out the smells of this new household member, it will become a battle between you and your cat.  However, if you let your cat take a stroll through the nursery and sniff blankets and toys, it will give your cat an opportunity to check out this new to her smell.  That does not mean that you have to leave the door open for the cat, but you should give your cat an opportunity to explore.

2. When you are holding your baby, don’t push your cat away if she is being curious.  Note, that doesn’t mean that your cat is in control and should hop on top of your baby, but a little curiosity is fine.  Of course, if your cat is being aggressive, don’t let her near the baby.  But if she simply wants to get a closer peek or sniff of your baby, it should be fine.

3. Once your baby is mobile, encourage gentle touching of your cat.  Do not allow your child to pull the cat’s tail or fur.  This is painful to your cat and could make your cat become aggressive.  Hold your baby’s hand in yours, and show your child how to pet the cat gently.  Do not make your cat stay if she is ready to leave; that will encourage her to feel trapped, which may lead to the presence of claws.

4. Don’t forget to save some time for your cat.  Before your baby arrived, you probably spent time every day patting your cat.  While you now are exhausted and busy, it is important to remember that your cat still is part of your family.  Even if all you can offer is a scratch on your cat’s head while falling asleep or offering her a kitty treat when cleaning up after dinner, your cat will appreciate your effort.